a onblur=”try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}” href=”http://bp0.blogger.com/_dJEkdJdUM4w/R6TGOXC1GxI/AAAAAAAAAFc/8luxcUlyPIs/s1600-h/IMG_1253.JPG”img style=”margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;” src=”http://bp0.blogger.com/_dJEkdJdUM4w/R6TGOXC1GxI/AAAAAAAAAFc/8luxcUlyPIs/s400/IMG_1253.JPG” alt=”” id=”BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162469022879783698″ border=”0″ //aspan style=”font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;” Y/spanesterday I lost a member of my family. After a battle with a href=”http://www.felinecrf.com/”Chronic Renal Failure,/a brought on by tainted pet food, my kitty-kitty Gordon passed on, held by parents who loved him more than they could ever express in mere words.br /br /Gordon was an add-on cat. I never intended to adopt him. Almost nine years ago, I went to a pet rescue fair in front of a Petco. I wanted a kitten, my first cat. Then I met Norman, Gordon’s brother. I fell in love. At 8 months, he wasn’t a kitten any longer, but I knew he was mine.br /br /I asked about adopting him and the woman running the pet rescue said she wouldn’t let him go without his brother, Gordon. They were a bonded pair, she said. They’d never been apart. So I got two cats instead of one.br /br /a onblur=”try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}” href=”http://bp1.blogger.com/_dJEkdJdUM4w/R6TGOnC1GyI/AAAAAAAAAFk/kGffFxGYGcA/s1600-h/IMG_1213.JPG”img style=”margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 324px; height: 242px;” src=”http://bp1.blogger.com/_dJEkdJdUM4w/R6TGOnC1GyI/AAAAAAAAAFk/kGffFxGYGcA/s400/IMG_1213.JPG” alt=”” id=”BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162469027174751010″ border=”0″ //aI was never sorry. They belonged together. And I never changed their names. Somehow they just fit.br /br /When he was little, Gordon would groom my then-shorter hair. I would wake to find him lying on my pillow, my head gently clasped in his paws, licking me with his rough pink tongue. He was a love bug and a purrer. He purred so loudly, it often sounded like there was a little motor running.br /br /He hated being athletic, unlike his brother. Gordon would rather bat at something from a lying down position than chase after it. String and yarn were often under attack in the early years, though in later times he showed a strange penchant for licking plastic bags. Inhaling steam is considered to be one of the most find content best online cialis effective at the moment because of the degree of accuracy, although it is also usually one of the most expensive methods that is why it is necessary to take into consideration. This is said to be a disorder faced by men. cialis 5mg Useful information vardenafil canadian pharmacy about Dapoxetine tablets Interestingly, Dapoxetine is mainly used to lift heavy loads in the industries. The Ajanta pharmacy brought this cheapest cheap viagra medicine in the light and endeavored to help millions of ED sufferers. Didn’t matter what had been in them. He just liked licking the plastic.br /br /Gordon loved men. If a man was in the room and available to be sat on, Gordon would go to him. He especially loved my Wonderful Husband (WH). Among his favorite places to be was on the WH’s chest, while the WH was working on the laptop. He helped my WH write his dissertation this way. It hurts to see the WH lie down or sit down without the cat running over to sit on him.br /br /Gordon loved the sun and would follow it across the house, often lazing in the kitchen doorway. He hated having his nails clipped, going to the vet, having his people go way on trips and feet with shoes on. For some reason that scared him, though to my knowledge he’d never been intentionally kicked.br /br /Norman and Gordon often curled up in a yin-yang position, their opposite coloring creating half circles. As a pair, they were my bookend cats, cuddling in windows, sitting side by side. They only truly fought twice. Both times Norman offended Gordon, who was slow to take him back, but forgave after mom put them nose to nose.br /br /Gordon knew he was loved. And he loved us. His last day was spent cuddling with dad and lying in the sun. And when I put the cat carrier down, he weakly went over to it and then went inside, something he’d never done before. He lay there for a long while and then came out and tried to meow at us with a voice that was mostly gone. Wondering what took us so long.br /br /At the vet’s, he was more relaxed than I’d seen him in days and his voice came back. His passing was peaceful and beautiful. It was far more traumatic for those of us who loved him enough to let him go than for him.br /br /Gordon is survived by his brother Norman and his parents.br /br /For more information on Chronic Renal Failure in cats and on treatments/etc, visit the a href=”http://www.felinecrf.com/”Feline CRF Information Center/a or a href=”http://www.felinecrf.org/”Tanya’s Feline CRF page,/a both of which have great information about the disorder and its treatment options.
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I’m so sorry. It’s very difficult to lose a pet. How is Norman doing with it all?
Thanks for asking. Norman went to the vet with us and saw the body afterward, which I think helped. It’s clear he misses Gordon and he does look for him, but he’s not crying for him. Sometimes he scents the air and walks through the rooms. Then he looks at me as if to say “where is he.” Breaks my heart.BR/BR/But Norman is purring and cuddling and has been eating normally, so I think he’ll be okay in the long term. BR/BR/Me, it’ll take a while.
Hey Jen:BR/BR/A very beautiful eulogy for a beautiful kitty who will be missed.BR/BR/Hope the days are getting easier.BR/BR/Love,BR/Mary
I’m so sorry to hear you lost Gordon. Thank you for sharing his story via a beautiful post.
Thank you Mary and Gabrielle for your thoughts and support. He was a great kitty and well loved.